“How can I recreate or reinvent myself when I am so broken? asked one of our clients. She had hired me as her breakup and divorce coach to help her reinvent her life after her most recent marital breakup. Holly (not her real name) had already been married twice. She had gone through as many...Read More

For 35 years, I have been treating couples, helping them to find the kind of relationship we all dream of – supportive, trusting, communicative, loving and respectful. It is the relationship where partners really listen to each other and learn to not hurt each other. It is a fantasy for the many and a reality...Read More

Extraordinary Self Key Ability #1 Low, or even fluctuating, Self-Worth takes an incredible toll on our lives. You have low self-worth if you are suffering from feelings of inadequacy, self-criticism, guilt, shame, poor relationships, anxiety – or a sense of not being enough and not having enough. The good news is that you can change...Read More

If you have gone through a painful relationship breakup, saying you are not at your best is probably an understatement. Many say they feel disorganized and confused, anxious about the future and bad about themselves. Does that sound like you? Do you have sleepless nights and stressful days? Or are you sleeping too much? Gaining...Read More

What It Is and How It Helps Did you ever wonder why some people seem stuck in their lives and others are thriving? Why do these thriving individuals reach outcome after outcome as they move forward in time? Back in the 60s, two men, Richard Bandler and John Grinder (along with Judith DeLozier, Leslie Bandler...Read More

Planning for Success New Year’s Day has come and gone. Valentine’s Day is already on the way. Many people set yearly intentions and then forget them by February. But, you don’t need to! The good news is that we at Extraordinary Self Programs can help you plan and reach your Success Goals whenever you are...Read More