Do you feel good about yourself sometimes, but not always? Are you occasionally hard on yourself … blaming and shaming yourself because of your circumstances, perceived failures or physical attributes? If so, you are not alone.
Like many people, you probably enjoy life sometimes and feel good about yourself sometimes. You accomplish goals sometimes, too. Even so, you may not feel the feelings you want to feel or get the outcomes you want to get as often as you would like. These are symptoms of ordinary living. If you’re happy with that, then we’re happy for you. But like many people, you may want more. You may want to enjoy the feelings and outcomes that come with an extraordinary mindset. You may want to be and feel extraordinary.
We all know that everyone can succeed sometimes. Most people have learned to do what they need to do and reach some of their goals in daily living. We learn new things all the time. We make friends, find wonderful spouses, get good jobs, and enjoy many good things in life. Sometimes we also know there’s more life, business and relationship potential for us to enjoy in bigger and better ways. Extraordinary Selves embrace their power to impact the extraordinary outcomes they want.
Ordinary Mindsets Create Ordinary Lives
People who live ordinary lives—aka Ordinary Selves—get caught in thought and behavior patterns that keep them stuck in the same old, same old arguments, results and life-limiting beliefs they’ve held almost forever. They haven’t learned how to change the nagging thoughts that result in self-criticism, low self worth, and lack of motivation. They see their world through filters that often make them feel dis-empowered, hurt, sad, stressed, jealous, negative and depressed. Sometimes they may feel good, even great. But later, they find themselves caught again in negative mind filters that frame their perceptions and limit their outcomes.
Ordinary Selves typically flap up and down with their self worth fluctuating based on what is happening around them. When they feel good and valued, they are more likely to feel motivated. Mostly, they feel good and positive when they get good feedback from others. But when they feel criticized, unappreciated, or unloved, they let that outside information (the opinions of others) wound them inside. And, those wounds hold them back from reaching for more in life, from reaching for the extraordinary future that is really is just a mindset and practice steps away. The good news is that can change; people can change. People do change—and experience extraordinary results—when they learn how. You can change your mind (in a positive way) and change your life, too.
Extraordinary Selves Enjoy Extraordinary Lives
Extraordinary Selves use Mindful Awareness, aka Mindfulness, to notice their thoughts and beliefs, while staying present in the moment. They consciously choose how they respond to events in their life. They’ve learned to live and work on, and with, purpose. Extraordinary Selves set big breakthrough goals and know how to consistently get the results they want. They’ve mastered the mind filters influencing their perceptions. They realize they are in charge of their emotions, and can change them when needed; they take responsibility for the part they play in shaping their own inner and outer worlds. Extraordinary Selves have become accomplished communicators; they have learned how to give and accept feedback without the feeling pain of criticism.
Having developed an integrated and self-empowering mental set, Extraordinary Selves move forward in their world with more confidence, satisfaction and success. They think and act in ways that lead to the outcomes they target. And, even when the going gets tough—even if they temporarily fall off-track—they know how to get back on track and re-build their momentum—and they do it. That’s what being extraordinary is all about.
Extraordinary Selves typically target bigger goals and reach those goals more consistently, while feeling good about themselves—regardless of what’s happening in their environment. They know their worth comes simply from being born into this world as a living, breathing being. As a result, they have stopped doubting themselves, and they are confident in their ability to conceive and create the extraordinary life they want. For some, extraordinary living means clarity and self acceptance, feeling good about themselves regardless of the words of critical others. For others, it means being confident enough to set big breakthrough goals and strategic enough to achieve them. For many, it means making great decisions and win-win thinking that leads to better personal relationships and/or business outcomes.
Do you want that? Are you ready to reinvent your mindset, change your thinking and build new skills? Then you are ready for Extraordinary Self® Reinvention Programs
ENVISION YOUR EXTRAORDINARY FUTURE
Ask yourself what you want instead of what you have now? Imagine your future as if you are already there. Close your eyes and imagine what is happening around you in your new extraordinary future. What are you seeing, hearing, feeling and believing? Listen to our Extraordinary Future Visualization now and use your own sense to get a feel for what our programs will do for you.
In the Extraordinary Self® Reinvention Programs, you’ll have many opportunities to explore and practice extraordinary abilities that lead to extraordinary futures.
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Dive right in if you’re ready for the more Extraordinary Life! Learn more now or register for our:
• Comprehensive Eight Key Extraordinary Abilities e-Course:
Or, start with our shorter courses:
• Mindfulness Training Course
• Inner Mastery Course
• Resource Course Individual Skill Builders.
Whichever you choose, you’ll find yourself growing by leaps and bounds once you begin practicing the thinking, skills and strategies you’ll learn.