Extraordinary Self® is Your Chance for Meaningful Change — e-Courses, Coaching, and Resources for Self Development, Relationship Success, and Career Enhancement
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Your Pathway to Extraordinary!

Unsatisfied with your life, relationships or career? Want to lower stress, build confidence, reach goals, improve relationships, and feel satisfied? Start your changes today with our extraordinary self-study courses, and work at your own pace!

The award-winning online learning system and proven Extraordinary Self® Reinvention e-Courses will help you develop the continual inner satisfaction and outer success of Extraordinary individuals. Thousands have. Why not you?

Why Choose Extraordinary Self® — Most self-development courses tell you what you can do to reach your goals. But telling isn’t enough to change the deeply rooted underpinnings sabotaging your mindset, behavior and desired outcomes. As a result, most people give up before they can develop the mindset, behaviors, and success already available to the fortunate few – whom we call “Extraordinary.”

Feel the Extraordinary Self® Difference

We are different! Our immersive and interactive curriculum has created sustainable change and more Extraordinary Futures for those who want more fulfillment in life, relationships and work. Thousands already have transformed their minds, lives, relationships, and careers with our self-development courses, coaching, and resources. Why not you?

Ready for change? Let’s work together! We provide the proven change framework; you provide the commitment, persistence, and willingness to learn and practice. Together, we are powerful.

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Each Extraordinary Self Resource Course is focused on helping with a specific type of challenge and troubling part of you. Set your own goal and develop the inner resources, mindset, and behaviors you need for meaningful and lasting change. Resource Courses include:

• Extraordinary Relationships and Win-Win Communication • Master Stress in 7 Steps • Empower Your Self-Talk • Power Up with Self-Confidence and Self-Worth • Overcome Self-Defeating Patterns and • Bounce Back with Emotional Resilience.

Our Comprehensive 8 Key Abilities for Your Extraordinary Future e-course will help you develop and internalize all eight powerful success patterns of Extraordinary individuals. This unique course primes your mind to learn and change, while building these Key Abilities in an integrated and systemic way.

Overcome Self Defeating Patterns

Learn Secrets of Extraordinary Selves

In the early 2000’s, our research team discovered that Extraordinary people believed in themselves and were able to maintain high level self-worth – no matter what was happening in their lives and businesses. How? They had learned to change self-defeating patterns into extraordinary success patterns – inside and out. And, they figured out no-fail ways of reaching their important goals. What if this were you? It can be!

With our proprietary online learning system, you can develop the patterns of these Extraordinary Selves – whose thoughts, feelings, beliefs and behaviors create more inner satisfaction and outer success. Sound good? Start developing your Extraordinary Self today!

Build confidence.
Thrive in relationships.
Reduce stress and anxiety.
Succeed consistently.

Strengthen learning and planning.
Make better decisions.
Improve judgment.
Excel in win/win communication.

Build resilience.
Live with purpose.
Love yourself more.
Enhance motivation.

Enjoy Award-Winning Learning System

With role models, deep insights, learning-rich tools, immersive visualizations and guided practice opportunities, our award-winning no-fail learning system leads you to change to Extraordinary at a deeper level inside – while you work toward your desired goals.

Want personal contact? You’ll get it! Our professional coaching team conducts Live Office Hours for Course Registrants to ensure that you are supported as you practice and internalize your changes. Want to get to know us first? We offer Public Hours for interested people, too. Need more help? Register for private coaching. We are here for you.

Take Your Chance for Lasting Change!

We know that even the thought of change stops many in their tracks. We also believe you deserve to value yourself highly, feel good about you, and maintain inner satisfaction while achieving outer success – just as Extraordinary individuals do.

Extraordinary Self® e-courses will teach you to transform automatic patterns of negativity and defeat into inner strengths supported by a learning mindset. As you learn and change, you will stop giving up on goals and begin reaching goals consistently. You will experience more inner satisfaction and outer success.

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Release What’s Holding You Back

Envision yourself in control of your life, thoughts and emotions … You no longer feel stuck, stressed or overwhelmed. Inner conflict is a thing of the past. You think more clearly with fewer distractions. You no longer question yourself or your worth. Decisions are easier. You have replaced fear of failure with sustained motivation. You know how to move forward. You are highly resourceful. And, you learned how to get what you want, consistently. This is possible! We will teach you how. Reinvent your mindset and build valuable skills for change with Extraordinary Self® Reinvention Courses.

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Experience More Success and Satisfaction

Picture this … You’ve empowered yourself. Negative voices fade away. Self-confidence flourishes. Your thoughts are positive. Time expands as you make better choices. You feel more energy and act more boldly. Stretch goals are easier to reach. You achieve ongoing success and enjoy deeper satisfaction with your life. Ready? If so, start reaching goals today with Extraordinary Self® Reinvention Courses.

Enjoy More of Your Heart’s Desires.

Imagine waking up knowing your life is on track … You tackle each day with purpose and enjoyment. You choose and achieve the outcomes you desire. You feel more free because you’ve learned that true freedom comes from your power to decide. You feel connected to something bigger in the universe. You experience heartfelt connection with your life and those in it. You now approach life with more joy. Experience the sense of connection you’ve been missing with Extraordinary Self® Reinvention Courses.

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Step Beyond Your Limits

Break through barriers in your life or career … Perhaps you believe circumstances won’t change, change is too hard, or you won’t get the results you want. We will help you transform the thought, belief and behavior patterns that sabotage great outcomes. With course insights, Extraordinary Self® action planning, and personal effort, you will free yourself to experience the changes you want. Take our complimentary Self Assessment and choose the right course or courses for you.

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Extraordinary Self programs help build a powerful mindset and integrity-based success-oriented behaviors. Course graduates learn how to increase and sustain motivation, so they stop giving up on goals and begin reaching them consistently.

Our program is proven to accelerate change so you quickly leave behind disappointments, hurts and frustrations – while empowering yourself for more success and satisfaction.

Courses and coaching options provide insight to specific issues and help enhance your own sense of self-value and inner resilience, so you maintain positive feelings about yourself, no matter what happens outside you.

In addition, our planning framework, exercises, visualizations, learning tools and personal coaching options ensure that you are supported as you practice and internalize your changes.


Built for your success, every learning-rich Extraordinary Self® e-Course includes:

 Multiple interactive components that will help you engage in the change process and stay motivated.
 Deep insights to help you understand the reasons behind the changes you are making and how to make them stick.
 Instruction with practice exercises to reinforce what you are learning.
 Proprietary learning tools to concretize your new skills.
 Interactive visualizations to help you make permanent change.
 A password-protected online journal. Writing is proven to help cement learning by engaging you in another sensory experience. Keep track of your shifting awareness, thoughts, benefits and changes as you begin reinventing your mind and using your new skills to transform your life. Look back on your progress and write about your intentions for your Extraordinary Future.
 An online Goals/Action Planning tool to help you plan, track and achieve the goals you set.
Weekly e-coaching messages to keep you on track.
Learning Checks and Feedback loops to facilitate success.
Office Hours, Webinars and Online Community

Ready to roll? Choose a course now.


We can help you activate your Extraordinary Self, build your extraordinary mindset, and establish a framework for the extraordinary life you want. Results will depend on your goals and the amount of effort you put in. If you wish to change, and follow our lesson plan, it is very possible that you will enjoy results, such as:
• Gain the inner strength and confidence you need to thrive in relationships, life and work.
• Gain clarity, motivate yourself and live and work with purpose.
• Develop a repeatable framework for success.
• Improve planning.
• Increase productivity.
• Lower stress.
• Make decisions with less anxiety.
• Enhance judgment.
• Improve communication.
• Build stronger win/win relationships.

As with all goals in life, to achieve those results, you will need to do the work. That said, the framework we provide is highly effective in helping people make the inner and outer changes they desire in their lives.


We offer the option of personal coaching with each of our programs. Coaching provides you with an accelerated path to ‘reinvention’. When you sign up for personal coaching, we meet with you via computer or phone; first, we help you select the best starting point. We then work with you to further your changes as you work through the Extraordinary Self course or courses we select together. During the Coaching sessions, we help reinforce and troubleshoot your changes.

We also offer Live Office Hours, which are interactive group sessions held online each week. We offer these hours specifically to registered learners and coaching clients as we deliver real-time answers to questions and concerns in online meetings. A meeting link is provided to registered learners upon course registration with scheduling information.

In addition, you may join our Public Life Office Hours, webinars and online community.


If you are unsure about what kind of help will get you the results you need, take our complimentary Extraordinary Self Program Self Assessment. Or sign up for an individual coaching session and we will help you figure out where to start.


Extraordinary Self® Reinvention Courses are offered online. When you sign up for a course or courses, you are given access to our proprietary e-Learning portal, where you can engage in your course work at your convenience, 24/7. Our learning strategies were developed and tested during more than a decade of research and testing in-person with individuals and groups, including a college program environment. If you choose our optional Coaching Program, coaching sessions also are conveniently offered online via Zoom, as well as by telephone. You can choose your preferred connection method when you register with us.


Dr. Diane Kramer, clinical and research psychologist, learning specialist and professor emeritus conceived the idea that the skills and abilities of Extraordinary individuals (those who maintain continual inner self-value and good feelings while reaching Breakthrough Goals) were teachable to others.

In 2002, her team of psychologists, social workers and business leaders began the work of creating a learning program to teach those Extraordinary skills to others. The team included Diane Huisinga, Clinical Psychologist; Dee Kinder, NeuroLinguistic Programming Trainer; Karen Bading, NeuroLinguistic Programming Trainer; and later, Donna Anselmo, an award-winning former journalist, author, trainer, business leader, and coach.

Across two decades, we continuously improved the program based on feedback and results from participants. The evidence speaks for itself. Our group and individual programs resulted in a staggering 96% of program participants reporting lasting success. Check out our testimonials for more information.

The online version of the Extraordinary Self e-Learning program was later re-developed by Dr. Kramer and Donna Anselmo, M.S. For more information about our founders, visit our About Us page.


Extraordinary Self® online courses are reasonably priced to deliver exceptional value. Structured for multi-modal sensory learning, based on proven principles of cognitive and learning psychology, neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) and the neurosciences, these courses are delivered on our award-winning e-learning platform.

Resource Courses are designed to develop a specific skill set in an integrated way. ($147 each)
Master Stress in 7 Steps 
Overcome Self-Defeating Patterns
Bounce Back with Emotional Resilience
Power Up for Self-Confidence and Self-Worth
Empower Your Self-Talk
Extraordinary Relationships and Win/Win Communication

8 Key Abilities for Your Extraordinary Future teaches 8 very important skills for ongoing success and satisfaction. These are the integrated set of skills that Extraordinary individuals use to maintain ongoing inner satisfaction and good feelings while achieving success after success.  ($347)

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