Extraordinary Self® is Your Chance for Meaningful Change — e-Courses, Coaching, and Resources for Self Development, Relationship Success, and Career Enhancement
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Extraordinary Self program releases hidden potential.

Transform to Your Extraordinary Self®

Enjoy the Results!

Are you ready for a big change? Unsatisfied with your life, relationships or career? Want to lower stress and relax more, reach goals, build confidence, improve relationships, succeed at work? Would you like to love yourself more and enjoy more of life? We want that for you, too!

You deserve it! Bring your personal, relationship, and/or professional goals – and we will engage you on a truly extraordinary path to meaningful change.

The proven, step-by-step Extraordinary Self® Program’s transformation system and supportive environment have helped thousands achieve their goals. Why not you? Extraordinary Self® Success Circles and Success Time will help you stay on track and motivated to succeed, while our deep e-Courses, Coaching, and other Resources help you change for the results you want – inside and out. Tell us what you need or ask a question.

Transformational e-Courses

Create the life you want! Liberate yourself from what holds you back, whether it’s negative thinking, limiting beliefs, self-defeating behavior, or simply lack of learning. Get unstuck as you change inside with our proven program and guided support. Choose our signature 8 Key Abilities for Your Extraordinary Future e-Course or start with skill-specific e-Courses.

Life-Changing Coaching

Talk through your challenges, goals, and plans with a professional coach who can help you eliminate blocks and activate your own extraordinary potential. Certified Extraordinary Self coach/facilitators provide insight, guidance and support so you gain clarity, plan effectively, decide wisely, and stay accountable to your goals. We look forward to working with you.

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Success Circles

Like the buddy system? Start or join an Extraordinary Self Success Circle and journey through our e-Courses with friends (or new friends). You’ll change together with friendly support as you connect, share goals, successes and resources in the spirit of our Extraordinary Self community. You’ll make your own world, and the world at large, a more extraordinary place, too.

Live Success Time with Us

We want you to feel and stay connected! Our weekly Extraordinary Self® Success Time — exclusively for e-Course and/or Coaching registrants — helps you focus on your goals, eliminate obstacles, and move forward. During Success Time, you can get answers, share successes, receive support and/or simply listen and learn each week. We also discuss course concepts during Public Access Time each week. Join us.

Webinars and Workshops

Stay inspired and motivated! Meet us and hear from Extraordinary Selves who have used our strategies and learned to cultivate the successes and fulfillment they desire in life, relationships, and careers. Learn how others have transformed to an extraordinary mindset and behavior for more success and satisfaction, using our Extraordinary Self empowerment arsenal. Join us! Sign up for event notifications.

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Referral Partner Program

Our new Referral Partner (Affiliate) Program allows people who love our Extraordinary Self e-Courses, Success Circles, Success Time, Coaching and other Resources to profit when we do. Start building income today! Send your own referral link to your friends and network. Then, use our turnkey Referral Partner Portal to track your visitors, conversions, commissions and payments on your personal Affiliate Dashboard.

Extraordinary Self® Online Courses

Our Comprehensive 8 Key Abilities for Your Extraordinary Future e-Course will help you develop and internalize all eight powerful success patterns of Extraordinary individuals. This unique course will prime your mind to learn and change, while building these Key Abilities in an integrated, systemic way.

Our shorter skill-targeted Resource e-Courses each focus on helping with a specific type of challenge and troubling part of you. You’ll set your own goal(s) and develop the inner resources, mindset, and behaviors needed for lasting positive change in your personal and/or professional life.
• Extraordinary Relationships and Win-Win Communication 
• Master Stress in 7 Steps 
• Empower Your Self-Talk 
• Power Up with Self-Confidence and Self-Worth 
• Overcome Self-Defeating Patterns
• Bounce Back with Emotional Resilience

Not sure which course is right for you? Take our complimentary Self-Assessment. And, please check back! We will be opening registration for our new Mindfulness course soon.

Claim Your Extraordinary Future!

Thousands already have transformed their minds, lives, relationships, careers, behavior and outcomes with proven Extraordinary Self® Program courses, coaching and resources. Why not you? 

Bring your own personal, relationship and/or professional goals – and we will engage you on a truly extraordinary path to meaningful change, success, and satisfaction.

Build confidence.
Thrive in relationships.
Reduce stress / anxiety.
Succeed consistently.

Strengthen Planning.
Make better decisions.
Improve judgment.
Excel at Win/Win Communication

Build resilience.
Live with purpose.
Love yourself more.
Enhance motivation.

Our Award-Winning Learning System

With role models, deep insights, learning-rich tools, immersive visualizations and guided practice opportunities, our award-winning no-fail proprietary learning system leads you to change to Extraordinary at a deeper level inside – while you work toward your desired goals.

Want personal contact? You’ll get it! Our professional coaching team conducts Live Success Time for Course and Coaching registrants to ensure that you are supported as you practice and internalize your changes.  Want to get to know us first? We offer Public Access Hours, too. Need more help? Register for Private Coaching. And join our Extraordinary Success Circles for group support. We are here for you!

Thrive with Friends, Family and Colleagues

Become an Extraordinary Self Referral Partner and/or start your own Success Circle. Contact us to get started.

Invite your friends, family and business associates to the Extraordinary Self® world – and together, you’ll learn what’s needed to:
• Consistently reach your goals, regarding self, business, productivity and relationships.
• Improve your relationships, even the difficult ones.
• Handle stressful situations with ease.
• Feel good about yourself, day in and day out.
• Bounce back from adversities and negative emotions.
• Learn from every experience.
• Multiply your business success, or start a new business.
• Let go of the past and live fully in the present.

Answers to Common Questions


Extraordinary Self programs help build a powerful mindset and integrity-based success-oriented behaviors. Course graduates learn how to increase and sustain motivation, so they stop giving up on goals and begin reaching them consistently.

Our program is proven to accelerate change so you quickly leave behind disappointments, hurts and frustrations – while empowering yourself for more success and satisfaction.

Courses and optional coaching provide insights to specific issues and help enhance your own sense of self-value and inner resilience, so you maintain positive feelings about yourself, no matter what happens outside you.

In addition, our planning framework, exercises, visualizations, learning tools and personal coaching options ensure that you are supported as you practice and internalize your changes.


Built for your success, every learning-rich Extraordinary Self® e-Course includes:

 Multiple interactive components that will help you engage in the change process and stay motivated.
 Deep insights to help you understand the reasons behind the changes you are making and how to make them stick.
 Instruction with practice exercises to reinforce what you are learning.
 Proprietary learning tools to concretize your new skills.
 Interactive visualizations to help you make permanent change.
 A password-protected online journal. Writing is proven to help cement learning by engaging you in another sensory experience. Keep track of your shifting awareness, thoughts, benefits and changes as you begin reinventing your mind and using your new skills to transform your life. Look back on your progress and write about your intentions for your Extraordinary Future.
 An online Goals/Action Planning tool to help you plan, track and achieve the goals you set.
Weekly e-coaching messages to keep you on track.
Learning Checks and Feedback loops to facilitate success.
Office Hours, Webinars and Online Community

Ready to roll? Choose a course now.


We can help you activate your Extraordinary Self, build your extraordinary mindset, and establish a framework for the extraordinary life you want. Results will depend on your goals and the amount of effort you put in. If you wish to change, and follow our lesson plan, it is very possible that you will enjoy results, such as:
• Gain the inner strength and confidence you need to thrive in relationships, life and work.
• Gain clarity, motivate yourself and live and work with purpose.
• Develop a repeatable framework for success.
• Improve planning.
• Increase productivity.
• Lower stress.
• Make decisions with less anxiety.
• Enhance judgment.
• Improve communication.
• Build stronger win/win relationships.

As with all goals in life, to achieve those results, you will need to do the work. That said, the framework we provide is highly effective in helping people make the inner and outer changes they desire in their lives.


We offer the option of personal coaching with each of our programs. Coaching provides you with an accelerated path to ‘reinvention’. When you sign up for personal coaching, we meet with you via computer or phone; first, we help you select the best starting point. We then work with you to further your changes as you work through the Extraordinary Self course or courses we select together. During the Coaching sessions, we help reinforce and troubleshoot your changes.

We also offer Live Office Hours, which are interactive group sessions held online each week. We offer these hours specifically to registered learners and coaching clients as we deliver real-time answers to questions and concerns in online meetings. A meeting link is provided to registered learners upon course registration with scheduling information.

In addition, you may join our Public Life Office Hours, webinars and online community.


If you are unsure about what kind of help will get you the results you need, take our complimentary Extraordinary Self Program Self Assessment. Or sign up for an individual coaching session and we will help you figure out where to start.


Extraordinary Self® Reinvention Courses are offered online. When you sign up for a course or courses, you are given access to our proprietary e-Learning portal, where you can engage in your course work at your convenience, 24/7. Our learning strategies were developed and tested during more than a decade of research and testing in-person with individuals and groups, including a college program environment. If you choose our optional Coaching Program, coaching sessions also are conveniently offered online via Zoom, as well as by telephone. You can choose your preferred connection method when you register with us.


Dr. Diane Kramer, clinical and research psychologist, learning specialist and professor emeritus conceived the idea that the skills and abilities of Extraordinary individuals (those who maintain continual inner self-value and good feelings while reaching Breakthrough Goals) were teachable to others.

In 2002, her team of psychologists, social workers and business leaders began the work of creating a learning program to teach those Extraordinary skills to others. The team included Diane Huisinga, Clinical Psychologist; Dee Kinder, NeuroLinguistic Programming Trainer; Karen Bading, NeuroLinguistic Programming Trainer; and later, Donna Anselmo, an award-winning former journalist, author, trainer, business leader, and coach.

Across two decades, we continuously improved the program based on feedback and results from participants. The evidence speaks for itself. Our group and individual programs resulted in a staggering 96% of program participants reporting lasting success. Check out our testimonials for more information.

The online version of the Extraordinary Self e-Learning program was later re-developed by Dr. Kramer and Donna Anselmo, M.S. For more information about our founders, visit our About Us page.


Extraordinary Self® online courses are reasonably priced to deliver exceptional value. Structured for multi-modal sensory learning, based on proven principles of cognitive and learning psychology, neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) and the neurosciences, these courses are delivered on our award-winning e-learning platform.

Resource Courses are designed to develop a specific skill set in an integrated way. ($147 each)
Master Stress in 7 Steps 
Overcome Self-Defeating Patterns
Bounce Back with Emotional Resilience
Power Up for Self-Confidence and Self-Worth
Empower Your Self-Talk
Extraordinary Relationships and Win/Win Communication

8 Key Abilities for Your Extraordinary Future teaches 8 very important skills for ongoing success and satisfaction. These are the integrated set of skills that Extraordinary individuals use to maintain ongoing inner satisfaction and good feelings while achieving success after success.  ($347)

Tune into our social media and website pages for special offers. Coupon offers and general pricing are subject to change at our discretion.