Extraordinary Self® is Your Chance for Meaningful Change - Transformatiive Programs for Personal Growth and Professional Development
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Transform to Your Extraordinary Self®

Enjoy the Results!

Come Alive with More Joy! More Authenticity! More Juice! More Creativity! More Productivity! More Love!

We bring that – and more! Through our original award-winning Extraordinary Self® Transformation Program, thousands changed inside and out for much more satisfaction and success.

Now, we present Extraordinary Self Transformational Programs online for you. Same intention, same outcomes, same excitement – joyful living, love, energy, creativity, productivity, and success.

And, you now have choice! Each three-part Extraordinary Self® Transformational Program includes:
Your Starter Blueprint for Change
Your choice of an in-depth change-focused e-Course; and
Live Success Time with us, Donna and Dr. Diane, to motivate, inspire and help you.

To make big sweeping changes, take our comprehensive 8 Key Abilities for Your Extraordinary Future Transformation Program. You get to change your self-defeating habits, transform your critical inner judge, and go for your dreams.

Or, sign up for a Transformation Program to troubleshoot a specific difficult area for you. Maybe you are stressed out, or suffer from poor relationships or painful emotions, or the voice in your head is just too mean.

Our intention is for you to get the changes you want and come alive to the more in you! We want that for you! Choose the Program that speaks to you and feels right for you. If you’re not sure which Program to take, start with our free Self-Assessment.

Whichever you choose, Extraordinary Self® Transformation Programs, in three parts, lead you to live your extraordinary life in the areas of Self, Career and/or Relationships.

Our Three-Part Program

Blueprint for Change

Part 1. Start your Extraordinary Self Transformation with your Blueprint for Change. Clarify your intentions in your chosen area. Explore what holds you back, and start to define what changes will get you where you want to go. Then, use your personal Blueprint for Change as a reference tool while you make your changes. This tool, along with other Program resources, will help you stay on track.

Transformation e-Courses

Part 2. Start your changes, using your chosen in-depth e-Course. Get unstuck as you change inside. Liberate yourself from what holds you back, whether it’s negative thinking, limiting beliefs, self-defeating behavior, or simply lack of learning. Actualize your intentions as you progress. Choose our comprehensive 8 Key Abilities for Your Extraordinary Future e-Course or an e-Course focused on specific parts of you.

Live Success Time with Us

Part 3. Join our weekly Extraordinary Self® Success Time to stay motivated and engaged. We will help you focus on your goals, eliminate obstacles, and move forward. During Success Time, you will review your Blueprint for Change, set next steps, share progress, and get answers to your questions. By the way, you also can join our discussions of change concepts and tools during public Transformation Time sessions.

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Life-Changing Coaching

Talk through your challenges, goals, and plans with a professional coach who can help you eliminate blocks and activate your own extraordinary potential. Certified Extraordinary Self Coach/Facilitators provide insight, guidance and support so you gain clarity, plan effectively, decide wisely, and stay accountable to your goals. We look forward to working with you.

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Success Circles

Like the buddy system? Start or join an Extraordinary Self Success Circle and journey through our Programs with friends (or new friends). You’ll change together with friendly support as you connect, share goals, successes and resources in the spirit of our Extraordinary Self community. You’ll make your own world, and the world at large, a more extraordinary place, too.

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Referral Partner Program

Our new Referral Partner (Affiliate) Program allows people who love our Extraordinary Self Transformation Programs and Resources to profit when we do. Start building income today! Get your own referral link and send to your friends and network. Then, use our turnkey Referral Partner Portal to track your visitors, conversions, commissions and payments.

Step-by-Step Transformation e-Courses

Our Comprehensive 8 Key Abilities for Your Extraordinary Future Program’s e-Course will help you develop and internalize all eight powerful inner satisfaction and outer success patterns of Extraordinary individuals – as researched by our team. This e-Course will prime your mind to learn and change, while building these Key Abilities in an integrated, systemic way. Learn to reach your goals step-by-step, while minimizing self-defeating patterns, turning your inner critic into a helpful inner coach, and changing negative thoughts, feelings and beliefs to positive. The result – a mind reboot you can use again and again.

Our shorter Transformation Program e-Courses each focus on helping with a specific type of challenge and troubling part of you. You’ll clarify your intentions, set your own goal(s), and develop the inner resources, mindset, and behaviors needed for lasting positive change in your life, relationships and/or career.
• Extraordinary Relationships and Win-Win Communication 
• Master Stress in 7 Steps 
• Empower Your Self-Talk 
• Power Up with Self-Confidence and Self-Worth 
• Overcome Self-Defeating Patterns
• Bounce Back with Emotional Resilience

Not sure which course is right for you? Take our complimentary Self-Assessment. And, please check back! We will be opening registration for our new Mindfulness course soon.

How Our Change Programs Work

Each Extraordinary Self® Transformational Program includes three parts. Part 1 is a starter Blueprint for Change to help you clarify your intentions and goal(s) and give thought to what you will need to succeed.

Part 2, our powerful in-depth Extraordinary Self e-Courses, are designed to help you change mental, emotional, and behavioral patterns so that you reach your goals – while feeling good about you, too.

Part 3, we (Dr. Diane and Donna) host a weekly Extraordinary Self® Success Time for added support.

Optional Individual Coaching, guest speakers, workshops, tools, and other resources are available to help you change your mindset, thoughts, feelings, and behavior for the positive results you want – inside and out. You deserve it!

Claim Your Extraordinary Future!

Thousands already have transformed their minds, lives, relationships, careers, behavior and outcomes with proven Extraordinary Self® Program courses, coaching and resources. Why not you? 

Bring your own personal, relationship and/or professional goals – and we will engage you on a truly extraordinary path to meaningful change, success, and satisfaction.

Build confidence.
Thrive in relationships.
Reduce stress / anxiety.
Succeed consistently.

Strengthen Planning.
Make better decisions.
Improve judgment.
Excel at Win/Win Communication

Build resilience.
Live with purpose.
Love yourself more.
Enhance motivation.

Our Award-Winning Learning System

This step-by-step transformation system – first developed in 2006 by Dr. Diane Kramer and a team of Psychologists and NLP trainers – is based on proven principles of Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), psychological research, and accelerated learning principles.

In its first ten years, our original Program and supportive environment helped thousands to change in significant ways and achieve their success goals – while increasing inner satisfaction and self-nurturing! Now, we, Dr. Diane Kramer and Donna Anselmo, M.S., bring this powerhouse to you — online. Join us!

With role models, deep insights, learning-rich tools, immersive visualizations and guided practice opportunities, our award-winning no-fail proprietary learning system leads you to change to Extraordinary at a deeper level inside – while you work toward your desired goals.

Want personal contact? You’ll get it! Our professional coaching team conducts Live Success Time for Program and Coaching registrants to ensure that you are supported as you practice and internalize your changes.  Want to get to know us first? We offer public Transformation Time, too. Need more help? Register for Private Coaching. And join our Extraordinary Success Circles for group support. We are here for you!

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Thrive with Friends, Family and Colleagues

After signing up for a Transformation Program, start or join an Extraordinary Self Success Circle. You can even invite your friends, family and business associates to join you in your Success Circle, once they have signed up for a Transformation Program. Together, you’ll learn to:
• Consistently reach your goals, regarding self, business, productivity and relationships.
• Improve your relationships, even the difficult ones.
• Handle stressful situations with ease.
• Feel good about yourself, day in and day out.
• Bounce back from adversities and negative emotions.
• Learn from every experience.
• Multiply your business success, or start a new business.
• Let go of the past and live fully in the present.

Want to earn income, too? Become an Extraordinary Self Referral Partner (Affiliate). Then, earn commission each time someone you refer signs up for an Extraordinary Self Transformation Progam.

Contact us to get started.

Answers to Common Questions


Extraordinary Self Transformation Programs help build a powerful mindset and integrity-based success-oriented behaviors. Program graduates learn how to increase and sustain motivation, so they stop giving up on goals and begin reaching them consistently. In addition, these graduates report far more positive feelings, increased happiness and even enhanced joy in life. They come more alive.

Our Programs are proven to accelerate change so you leave behind disappointments, hurts and frustrations – while empowering yourself for more success and satisfaction.

Transformation Programs and optional coaching provide insights to specific issues. They help enhance your own sense of self-value and inner resilience, so you maintain positive feelings about yourself, no matter what happens outside you.

In addition, our planning framework, exercises, visualizations, learning tools, and optional personal coaching ensure that you are led to practice and internalize changes that lead to your chosen Goals.


Built for your success, every learning-rich Extraordinary Self® Program includes:

Your Blueprint for Change to help you focus on the inner and/or outer Goal you want to go for and the changes you need to make to get there.
An in-depth e-Course with multiple interactive components that will help you engage in the change process and stay motivated
Weekly Live Success Time with us, Dr. Diane and Donna, to keep you focused on your Goal and the changes you need to make to get there.
Multiple interactive components that will help you engage in the change process and stay motivated.
 Deep insights to help you understand the reasons behind the changes you are making and how to make them stick.
 Instruction with practice exercises to reinforce what you are learning.
 Proprietary learning tools to concretize your new skills.
 Interactive visualizations to help you make permanent change.
 A password-protected online journal. Writing is proven to help cement learning by engaging you in another sensory experience. Keep track of your shifting awareness, thoughts, benefits and changes as you begin reinventing your mind and using your new skills to transform your life. Look back on your progress and write about your intentions for your Extraordinary Future.
An online Goals/Action Planning tool to help you plan, track and achieve the goals you set.
Learning Checks and Feedback loops to facilitate success.
Weekly e-coaching messages to keep you on track.
Webinars, Success Circles and Online Community

Ready to roll? Choose an Extraordinary Self Transformation Program now.


We can help you activate your Extraordinary Self, build your extraordinary mindset, and establish a framework for the extraordinary life you want. Results will depend on your goals and the amount of effort you put in. If you wish to change, and follow our transformation methods, it is very possible that you will enjoy results, such as:
• Gain the inner strength and confidence you need to thrive in relationships, life and work.
• Experience more joy and happiness in your life.
• Lessen negative feelings and thoughts.
• Gain clarity, motivate yourself and live and work with purpose.
• Eliminate Self-Doubts and love yourself more.
• Develop a repeatable framework for success.
• Improve planning.
• Increase productivity.
• Lower stress.
• Make decisions with less anxiety.
• Enhance judgment.
• Improve communication.
• Build stronger win/win relationships.

As with all Goals in life, to achieve those results, you will need to do the work. But is it really work? When you are passionate – because it is what you want and need – it is more pleasure than work. That said, the framework we provide is highly effective in helping people make the inner and outer changes they desire in their lives. We want that for you! You deserve that!


We offer the option of personal coaching with each of our Extraordinary Self® Transformation Programs. Coaching provides you with an accelerated path to “transformation.” When you sign up for personal coaching, we meet with you via computer or phone; first, we help you select the best starting point. We then work with you to further your changes as you work through the Extraordinary Self Program or Programs we select together. During the Coaching sessions, we help reinforce and troubleshoot your changes.

We also offer weekly Success Time hour with us, Donna and Dr. Diane, which are interactive group sessions held online each week. Success Time hours are exclusively open to registered learners and coaching clients.

The purpose of Success Time is to empower you to stay on your “change track” as you reach for the inner and/or outer outcomes you are seeking. We keep you engaged and moving forward with Goals and Action Steps plus answer your questions and help you troubleshoot whenever you get stuck. We provide Learners with Success Time scheduling information and a meeting link upon Program registration.

In addition, you may join our Public Transformation Time on Wednesdays at 6:00 PM ET, as well as our and online community and Success Circles. Sign up for news, Zoom links and notices.


If you are unsure about what kind of help will get you the results you need, take our complimentary Extraordinary Self Transformation Program Self Assessment. Or sign up for an individual coaching session and we will help you figure out where to start.


Extraordinary Self® Transformation Programs are offered online. When you sign up for a Program or Programs, you get started with our Blueprint for Success to help you begin to focus on the changes you need to reach the inner and/or outer outcomes you want. Then, you are given access to our proprietary e-Learning portal, where you can engage in your e-Course work at your convenience, 24/7/365.

Our learning strategies were developed and tested during more than a decade of research and testing in-person with individuals and groups, including a college program environment.

Also, as part of your Transformation Program, we invite you to weekly Success Time with us, Donna and Dr. Diane, to stay engaged in your change project and keep moving forward toward your inner and/or outer outcomes.

If you choose our optional Coaching Program, coaching sessions also are conveniently offered online via Zoom, as well as by telephone. You can choose your preferred connection method when you register with us.


Dr. Diane Kramer, clinical and research psychologist, learning specialist, business developer, coach, NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) expert, author and professor emeritus, conceived the idea that the skills and abilities of Extraordinary individuals (those who maintain continual inner self-value and good feelings while reaching Breakthrough Goals) were teachable to others.

In 2004, her team of psychologists, social workers and business leaders began the work of creating a learning program to teach those Extraordinary skills to others. The team included Dr. Diane Huisinga, Clinical Psychologist; Dee Kinder, NeuroLinguistic Programming Trainer; and Karen Bading, M.S.W. NeuroLinguistic Programming Trainer. David Gordon, one of the first NLP Trainers, mentored the start of the project. 

In 2006, Donna Anselmo, an award-winning journalist, communicator, trainer, and business leader joined the team.

Across two decades, we continuously improved the Program based on feedback and results from participants. The evidence speaks for itself. Our group and individual Programs resulted in a staggering 96% of Program participants reporting lasting success. Check out our testimonials for more information.

The Extraordinary Self Transformation Program was later re-developed by Dr. Kramer and Donna Anselmo, M.S. for online access 24/7/365 access. For more information about our founders, see details about our Leadership Team.


Extraordinary Self®  Transformational Programs online are reasonably priced to deliver exceptional value. Structured for multi-modal sensory learning, based on proven principles of psychology, Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) and the neurosciences, the e-Course component of our Programs is delivered on our award-winning e-learning platform.

Our comprehensive 8 Key Abilities for Your Extraordinary Future Program’s e-Course teaches 8 very important abilities for ongoing success and satisfaction. They form the integrated set of abilities that Extraordinary individuals use to maintain ongoing inner satisfaction and good feelings while achieving success after success. This Program begins with our Blueprint for Change and also includes our weekly group Success Time hour exclusively for registrants. ($347)

Extraordinary Self Transformation Programs targeting specific problem areas are designed to help you reach your desired outcomes in the area(s) you choose. As with our 8 Key Abilities for Your Extraordinary Future Program, these shorter Programs’ e-Courses help you reach and maintain ongoing inner satisfaction and good feelings while achieving success after success. These Programs begin with our Blueprint for Success and also include our weekly group Success Time hour exclusively for registrants. ($147 each)
Master Stress in 7 Steps 
Overcome Self-Defeating Patterns
Bounce Back with Emotional Resilience
Power Up for Self-Confidence and Self-Worth
Empower Your Self-Talk
Extraordinary Relationships and Win/Win Communication

Browse our Catalog to learn more about each Program.

Tune into our social media and website pages for special offers. Coupon offers and general pricing are subject to change at our discretion.

If you wish to enhance your income, explore our Extraordinary Self Referral Partner (Affiliate) Program, through which you can earn commission each time one of your referrals signs up.