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Build Extraordinary Relationships & Win/Win Communication: Immersive, Experiential Self-Study with Live Group Support


Are you suffering guilt and shame as a result of relationship troubles? Are you feeling undeserving of the happiness you expected? Have you been caught in a vicious cycle of attack and withdrawal? Are sleepless nights followed by daily exhaustion? Does a sense of hopelessness and/or helplessness keep you stuck? If so, this transformation program is for you.

Turn Up Happiness! Tune In Satisfaction! Find More Connection! More Intimacy! More Communication! More Closeness! Build kind, balanced, and fulfilling relationships – in your life, love and/or career!

The Extraordinary Relationships and WIN/WIN Communication Transformation Program will help you transform yourself and your relationships for more inner satisfaction and outer success. Changing your part in a Relationship is the most powerful way of influencing others.

Do this Program alone and powerfully impact your relationships! Do this Program with a Partner and more than double the benefits! Either way, you will improve all future relationships for life.

Different from most Relationship improvement courses – this Program will not simply teach you concepts and ideas about dealing with difficult people. Instead, the Program will actually lead you through change – in awareness, thoughts, emotions, beliefs, behaviors, and communication patterns – to maximally influence your difficult Relationships and enhance your good Relationships.

You may now be saying: “I have already done everything to make my Relationship better and still see no difference.”

While that may be true for you, we have discovered that many people often don’t understand what it takes to improve their Relationship, and/or they have not yet developed the abilities to do so.

In this Program, you will learn to understand and practice truly Extraordinary Relationship and Win/Win Communication abilities and skill sets – as you gain deeper understanding of your Self and Others. You will learn how to apply your new abilities, skills and insights with practice exercises, visualizations and other tools. You also will learn Win/Win strategies for getting your needs met, when that is possible.

This three-part Transformation Program will support you from start to finish! Begin with (1) our Blueprint for Change; (2) Then, use the insights, strategies, tools, exercises, visualizations, and practice opportunities detailed in this Program’s in-depth, interactive, self-paced e-Course e-Course. The content is presented over 15 lessons with 180 vibrant screens. This e-Course also includes 10 visualizations to foster deep inner change for the results you want inside and out; and (3) join us in a group Success Time hour each month to review progress, set Next Steps, and stay on track with added support, insight, and troubleshooting until mastery.

Following your purchase, you will receive an email Welcome notification with instructions to access your Blueprint for Change, in-depth e-Course at the Extraordinary Self® Learning Portal, and Success Time to help reinforce the skills you are building. Once you register, we also will follow up with weekly coaching emails relevant to your e-Course content.

Start Developing Your Extraordinary Relationship Today! Learn more below.



This learning-rich and Transformational Program offers deep insight to the beliefs, thoughts and behaviors influencing Relationships. It also explains and helps correct the Vicious Cycles that are part of many troubled relationships. When needs are not met, hurts and resentments follow. The result is the Vicious Cycle of  “attack and/or withdraw.” These reactions worsen over time.

Exercises and practice opportunities will help you learn to break the Vicious Cycle. How? You will learn to draw on an extraordinary mindset that will help you change your part in the relationship so you can influence the other(s).

Learn new abilities and skills, and practice shifting thoughts, beliefs and behaviors with our strategic and award-winning learning methods. Also learn the secrets to better relationship communication and how to cultivate the Win/Win relationships you desire.


Are you frustrated that one or more of your Relationships are hurtful and unsatisfying?
Do you wonder if you will ever enjoy the kind of Relationships you desire?
Do you want more love and caring – and less conflict and anger?
Do you feel disrespected?
Have you tried and tried to work on your difficult Relationships – to no avail?
Do you keep thinking: “If only he (or she) would get it, and change, all would be well?”
Do you keep thinking: “I really resent that he or she isn’t doing his or her part to make the Relationship better.”
Do you struggle to keep control – and keep losing it, in anger or with anxiety and frustration, because the Other is upsetting you too much?
Do you distance more and more as you get attacked and feel hurt, unloved and frustrated?
Are you ready for big CHANGE?

If your answer is ‘Yes’ to any of the questions above, then this Course will help!

Based on psychology and Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) (see below), all Extraordinary Self® Transformation Programs help build powerful mindsets and integrity-based success-oriented behaviors.

This particular Transformation Program – Extraordinary Relationships and Win/Win Communication – was designed to guide you to make step-by-step changes in difficult Relationships. With 15 lesson’s, this Transformation Program’s interactive, in-depth, self-paced e-Course provides 180 screens of engaging content, as well as 10 visualizations. All available to you online 24/7/365 – along with other resources.

Best reasons of all – You will feel better about your ability to navigate through Relationships. You will feel more confident in yourself, and your Relationship and Communication skills. You will succeed at getting your needs met in a Win/Win way – or make different and healthier relationship choices.


In this Program, you will learn how to improve your difficult relationships – whenever that actually is possible. We can’t promise to transform your spouse, partner or other important relationship for you. What we can do is make sure that you influence your relationships to the best of your ability – with new-found skills using a Win/Win mindset.

What will you learn in this Extraordinary Relationships and Win/Win Communication Program to make change happen?

  • You will learn the abilities and skills to change your part in the Relationship and to maximally influence your partner, spouse or other in a positive direction!

1. Learn the characteristics of an Extraordinary Relationship.
2. Set a Goal for reaching your own Extraordinary Relationship.
3. Develop a powerful Breathing Tool to help with calming your mind.
4. Determine the specific problems in your difficult Relationships.
5. Pinpoint your own and your partner’s specific contributions, small or large, in creating the Relationship problems.
6. Grasp why the problems get worse and worse – and end up in the Vicious Cycle of ‘attack and/or withdraw’.
7. Understand what you need to do to improve each difficult Relationship.
8. Master how to STOP your behaviors and feelings that automatically arise when your Vicious Cycle gets Triggered.
9. Learn how to recognize and DETACH from your automatic inner reactions of thoughts and feelings when your Vicious Cycle gets Triggered. This is a super-important skill as it allows you to take charge of the interaction and find ways of making it better.
10. Develop the ability to recognize and change underlying Beliefs that are getting in the way of improving the Relationship.
11. Implement changes in your Relationship.
12. Practice the Seven Steps of Win/Win Communication, in order to work at improving the Relationship and getting more of your needs met, if possible.
13. Negotiate for the Win/Win.
14. Assess your progress at the end of the course (and at the end of each lesson). Then set a new Goal for improving difficult Relationships even further.
15. Figure out what to do if you bring your new awareness and Win/Win Communication skills into the Relationship and it still doesn’t get better.

[ What You Get and What It Will Do For You. ]

• Part 1: Extraordinary Self® Blueprint for Change to help you assess your relationship needs and chart your course.
• Part 2: An in-depth, interactive, self-paced Extraordinary Self® e-Course
available 24/7/365 with the features and benefits listed below:
 Exercises to help you identify the changes you desire.
Insights to deepen your awareness and control of emotional triggers and reactions that derail relationships and impede Win/Win communication.
Exercises that enable you to practice shifting mentally and behaviorally. These exercises help align your mindset with more effective ways of thinking, feeling and acting. They also help strengthen those new helpful relationship patterns you will develop and build your own inner resources for more control.
Proprietary learning tools that will help reinforce empowering insights, skills and strategies to transform your part in your relationships.
Focused visualizations that promote change at a deep inner level and foster creation and incorporation of new, positive automatic thoughts and reactions over time
A private online journal in which you may write about your new awareness, thoughts, benefits and changes as they relate to your goals and life. Using an online journal will help you track your progress, reflect on the positive changes you are making and reinforce the changes you are experiencing.
• Access to our proprietary online Action Planning Tool to help you achieve the goals you set.
Built-in Learning Checks and Feedback loops to help assess your progress and stay on track.
10 weeks of coaching support, via email delivered to your inbox to help you stay on track.
• Part 3: Monthly access to Success Time hours, exclusive to registered Transformation Program and Coaching clients. Success Time provides an opportunity to review your Blueprint for Change, chart your progress, and set Next Steps in a supportive environment. We provide troubleshooting as needed to reinforce your changes until mastery. Ask your questions, share information and/or simply listen and learn.
Access to educational webinars and the Extraordinary Self community online chats, as available.

About our Transformation Programs in General:

Based on psychological research and Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), all our Extraordinary Self® Transformation Programs, including our interactive, in-depth, self-paced e-Courses, will help build powerful mindsets with far less negativity and unhappiness and more inner satisfaction and outer success.

The NLP approach, developed in the early ‘80s. starts with the idea that our thoughts, feelings and behaviors can change due to the neuro-plasticity of our brains. With that idea in mind, Neuro-Linguistic Programming experts model the thoughts, feelings and behaviors of successful people in any given area, including highly effective Relationships and Communication.

Then, through change strategies, visualizations and practice, NLP experts teach others to develop these same strategies.

In all our Transformation Programs, participants learn how to change thoughts, feelings, and behavior. They increase and sustain motivation. As a result, they stop giving up on goals and start reaching them consistently. In addition, our graduates report far more positive feelings, increased happiness and even enhanced joy in life. They come more alive.

All of our Programs help you develop more self-awareness, mindfulness and inner calm and resilience. They enable you to shift from unhelpful limiting beliefs to the empowering liberating beliefs needed for more self-confidence, inner good feelings and to reach your goals in whatever area you choose.

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