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A dirty plate left on the counter. A silence that lasts all evening. An argument two people have had so many times that they both know what comes next.
Every couple has a version of its own. For some it is the dishes or the money. For others it is sex, children, work, or how much time to spend together. Whatever it is for you, the problem is real.
After fifty years as a psychologist and marriage counselor, I can tell you something about it. The trouble is not how often it happens. It is that it never ends. It comes back, whatever the subject.
And it keeps the same shape. One of you attacks and the other goes quiet. Or you both attack. Or you both go quiet.
I call it the Couple’s Vicious Cycle. This book is not about changing your partner. It shows you how to find your own part in the cycle and change that part. You can do that whether or not your partner ever joins you.
The book itself is coming to Amazon in the middle of November. I will email you when it is there. The Kindle edition will be $0.99 for its first two months.
P.S. If you are reading this late at night, after an evening that went the way those evenings usually go, here is what I would want you to know. Your painful patterns do keep coming back, and there is a reason. Chapter 1 gives you the reasons. If the book is not for you, you have lost twenty minutes. If it is, you will know by the second page.
Warmly,
Dr. Diane