Like many of you, I failed at one relationship after another – until I went through a life-changing personal transformation and found the perfect one for me. We have been happy with each other for almost 35 years. Here is my story: On the outside, I looked like I was doing fine. A psychologist...Read More
“How can I recreate or reinvent myself when I am so broken? asked one of our clients. She had hired me as her breakup and divorce coach to help her reinvent her life after her most recent marital breakup. Holly (not her real name) had already been married twice. She had gone through as many...Read More
For 35 years, I have been treating couples, helping them to find the kind of relationship we all dream of – supportive, trusting, communicative, loving and respectful. It is the relationship where partners really listen to each other and learn to not hurt each other. It is a fantasy for the many and a reality...Read More
If you have gone through a painful relationship breakup, saying you are not at your best is probably an understatement. Many say they feel disorganized and confused, anxious about the future and bad about themselves. Does that sound like you? Do you have sleepless nights and stressful days? Or are you sleeping too much? Gaining...Read More
Have you left a toxic relationship through breakup or divorce – or are you thinking of leaving? In most cases, leaving opens you to new problems on top of the old – pain, disorientation, frustration, confusion, lack of direction, emptiness, sadness, even full mourning. Recovery means moving out of all that pain! In Recovery, as...Read More
Like many women I’ve known, I thought my marriage was near perfect. Sure we had occasional arguments – usually the same few, in different forms. As a child, I had seen my parents argue and thought arguments were normal. I trusted all was well and that he felt the same abiding love and loyalty for...Read More