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DIANE transformed by embracing self-love. She let go of “conditional” self-approval. Instead of riding the up and down roller coaster of emotions, Diane discovered her own worthiness and began to love herself unconditionally. She now leads a highly satisfied life with a meaningful career and fulfilling relationships.

PAM empowered herself to grow at work while following the Extraordinary Self Program’s next step learning method, win/win relationship strategies, and communications training. Not long after, she reached an important career goal she had set. Having started as a librarian, Pam became director of library services for her municipality.

BONNIE transformed her critical inner judge into an inner coach. Practicing the strategies she learned in the Extraordinary Self program, she then empowered herself to leave a destructive marriage and begin a whole new career as an interior designer.

LLOYD wanted to bolster business performance. He brought his entire mortgage team to the Extraordinary Self Program. They learned to transform their individual and group self-concepts; their new perception of themselves as sales leaders enabled them to reached their goal to become the leading mortgage team in their bank.

BOB changed a very limiting self-defeating self-concept and belief he would never amount to anything. Instead, he learned new ways of thinking feeling and believing. He went from a minimum wage retail worker to activating his own greatness. He soon landed his dream job as an Emergency Medical Technician.

JOHN was a director of a business engineering program, but he didn’t feel good about himself. John was a perfectionist always living one step ahead of self-attacks. His harsh Inner Judge used negative methods of fear, blame, worry, guilt and shame. That constant negative pressure caused John to feel stress, and negativity and anger. In the Extraordinary Self Program, John made a new contract with his inner judge to change its methods and, instead, guide him with helpful support and reinforcement. As a result, John began achieving at even higher levels, transforming both himself and his business for positive results, while also feeling good inside.

CECILIA had a pleaser personality, always trying to make others happy even when it cost her. She became stronger in herself, less dependent on the man in her life, and began consistently filling her own needs. She continued building the company she had started, grew more successes, and felt more satisfied than ever.

JOSETTE suffered from low self worth. In group coaching classes, she began to build up her sense of self worth. She then decided to followed her dreams, moved to Florida, and became an inspiring spiritual coach with a lovely following.

BEVERLY had been a successful consultant, but felt the need for a change. In group coaching sessions, she strengthened her self-worth, set new goals and learned a no-fail strategy for reaching them. As a result, she developed deeper confidence in her decisions and increased her level of satisfaction with her business and her personal relationship.

DONNA lived on Long Island, where she met her husband, raised three children, and eventually ran her own marketing firm. But she had always wanted to live in the Florida sunshine in view of water. While taking the Extraordinary Self Program, she envisioned a new life and practiced the 8 Key Abilities of Extraordinary Selves. She was so impressed with her own swift changes, she wanted to “pass the gold” to others. She decided to trade in the proverbial New York rat race for palm trees and a lake view in coastal Florida. First, she became a certified a Extraordinary Self coach and shortly after, she moved to a lakefront home in Florida. Later, she co-founded the online Extraordinary Self Program with Dr. Diane Kramer.

CATHERINE finished the Extraordinary Self Program before deciding to move halfway across the country to be closer to family. In her new location, she found her soulmate as well as a whole new profession in instructional design. Before long, she became a leader of Christian Women’s leadership programs and is now traveling and meeting new people all the time. She’s also written a powerful book for women.

LIZ had risen to manager of training and development in the printing company she worked for. But she wanted more. While taking the Extraordinary Self Program, she refined her vision. Shortly after, she registered for graduate school and earned a Master’s in Teaching degree. With her new degree in hand, she quickly landed her dream teaching job. She also used what she learned about decision-making to set the criteria she wanted for a life partner – so she recognized him as the right person when they met. Years later they married and now have a new house and baby on the way.

PHIL brought his men’s support group of eight individuals who needed help overcoming fear of failure and limiting beliefs. They collectively transformed their critical inner judges into resourceful inner coaches. As a result these men were able to achieve goals in a positive way without fear of failure.

DIANA had been in a long-term, but unsatisfying relationship and career. After taking the Extraordinary Self Program, she reorganized the inner puzzle of her life by shifting from limiting to liberating beliefs, transforming her inner judge from critical to resourceful, and then transforming her self-defeating patterns. Shortly after, she moved to a different state and refocused her talents. Today she leads corporate transformational programs. She also found her soulmate in the process.

JOANN felt stuck in life. Having no real need to work, she had given up her career, but felt unfulfilled. Through the Extraordinary Self Program, she transformed her mind and behavior. Instead of doing the expected, she gave herself permission to follow her passions for ballroom dancing and painting – and then made shift after shift for more positivity and joy. She transformed to her Extraordinary Self.

JUDY had been hounded by a critical inner judge who made her feel inadequate no matter how much she achieved. She took on more and more work, leaving less time for her family and husband. After joining the Extraordinary Self Program, she learned to say no at work – without fear of guilt and shame in the corporate world. As a result, she enjoyed more respect at work, achieved better work/life balance, and saved an ailing marriage in the process.

NANCY could not decide what to do with her thriving company. Despite her success, she didn’t yet have an exit plan, so she felt uncertain about the future. In the Extraordinary Self Program, Nancy improved her decision-making, developed more confidence, and began trusting her own worth and business acumen. As a result, she realized her business had more value than she had thought. She soon sold that business for more money than she previously expected.

ALTHEA was a widow, left with a number of properties by her deceased husband. She felt incapable of moving forward because her husband had always been in charge. Her properties began deteriorating and losing value. She felt stuck. In the Extraordinary Self Program, Althea set specific business goals, developed an action plan, and built confidence as she moved forward one step at a time. Feeling stronger and more powerful inside, she was able to take action she had previously avoided. Soon, she sold those properties at a vast profit, which funded her retirement.

NANCY had been highly successful in business, but less so in her relationships. After her divorce, she registered for the Extraordinary Self Program. She began challenging her beliefs about herself. As a result, she developed higher self-worth and more self-confidence. She set criteria for the relationship she wanted. Before long, she found the right man for her.

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We also offer Extraordinary Self Transformation Programs for people in or recovering from toxic and dysfunctional relationships. Our three versions of this recovery program include: A private coaching program with live support over the course of one year. This program will help you evolve to the next level of self-love, self-confidence and a fulfilling life. We also offer this program in a group environment. Our third program is a self-paced, self-study option. It includes the same powerful lessons as our live program, specially designed for those who prefer working independently.

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In addition to our Toxic Relationship Breakup and Divorce Recovery programs, other Extraordinary Self Transformation Programs include 7 intensive powerful self-study courses for self and relationship development,. All programs include live Success Time with us each month for support, motivation, and troubleshooting. Our core course, 8 Key Abilities for Your Extraordinary Future, has won multiple awards and helped thousands. Our other courses specifically address stress, self-talk, emotional resilience, self-defeating patterns, relationships, and self-worth.

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Dr. Dia
ne (Kramer) is a long-time relationship and business coach, psychologist, divorce mediator, author and marriage counselor. Dr. Diane brings insight, wisdom, warmth, and powerful tools to help her clients recover from toxic and painful relationships with self and/or other – in personal life and business. She teaches the mind set, skill set and action set to feel continually self-loving and powerful while reaching success goals time-after-time in all areas of your lif

Donna (Anselmo) M.S., Dr. Diane’s partner, is a long-time business and relationship coach, best-selling author, hypnotherapist, radio personality, and branding/marketing specialist. She brings wisdom, compassion, insight and powerful tools to lead her clients to recover from toxic and painful relationships with self and/or others. She then leads her clients to build successful lives, step-by-step, in the areas of relationships, career, business and personal life.

Co-founders of the award-winning Extraordinary Self Transformation Programs, Donna and Dr. Diane draw their tools from Psychology, Neuroscience, Neuro-linguistic Programming (NLP) and Mindfulness Practices.

Donna and Dr. Diane have helped thousands of Extraordinary Self graduates transform for more extraordinary lives. We look forward to helping you.

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