Do You Believe in Yourself? Do you wish you had more confidence? Do you hope for more influence or control over your life? We can help by helping you adopt the Key Beliefs of Extraordinary Selves. Perhaps you are wondering what those beliefs are all about.
Extraordinary Selves have adopted a belief system that helps them enjoy more of what they want in life. They have adopted a strong belief in their own self worth and live life without needing external validation to feel good about themselves.
They believe they can only change what actually is in their control or influence. When people or circumstances are beyond their control or influence, they adopt “It is what it is” philosophy and focus on changing only what is in their control or influence. In fact, this ability makes Extraordinary Selves more productive because they learn to focus on what will make a difference.
Extraordinary Selves believe that important successes and great satisfaction are just one right next step (or a few steps) away. They believe that if they develop a learning mindset—figuring out what information and resources they need to succeed—they will know what next steps will help them get there.
They also adopt an “I can do anything within my control or influence as long as I do it one step at a time and learn from the feedback as I go” belief.
When things don’t go as planned or Extraordinary Selves realize they made a mistake, they view their mistakes as information about what not to do next time. Then they use their belief in continuous learning to move forward again. Rather than get stuck in worry or self-recrimination, Extraordinary Selves move forward by reminding themselves that “There is no failure. There is only failure to learn the right next step.” Extraordinary Selves are confident in the belief they can work through problem situations by targeting the right mindset and actions to go with it.
Would you like to embrace and benefit from those beliefs too? Consider taking our complimentary Self Assessment and deciding what right next step you will take!