Do You Believe in Yourself? Do you wish you had more confidence? Do you hope for more influence or control over your life? Then learn the Key Beliefs of Extraordinary Selves.
First, Extraordinary Selves believe in their own intrinsic self worth. As a result, they are not easily dissauded and discouraged from reaching for goals. They believe they deserve to enjoy what they want in life simply because they live and breathe and have a purpose in this life.
Extraordinary Selves are confident because they have learned a method for ensuring success.
They have learned they can change or influence that which is in their control or influence. When people or circumstances are beyond that, they understand that, “It is what it is,” and focus instead on changing the parts of the situation they can. There are some things in this world, we can’t actually change.
The ability to see and accept that difference makes Extraordinary Selves more productive. Why? They have learned to concentrate their time and effort on what really will make a real difference in their lives, rather than worrying about things they cannot change or influence.
Extraordinary Selves believe that important successes and great satisfaction are just one Next Step (or a series of small steps) away.
They believe that with their learning mindset—figuring out what information and resources they need to succeed—they will identify what next steps will help them get where they want to go.
They take responsibility for managing their feelings and they adopt an “I can do anything within my control or influence as long as I do it one step at a time and learn from the feedback as I go” belief.
When things don’t go as planned or when Extraordinary Selves realize they made a mistake, they view those mistakes as information about what not to do next time. Then they use their belief in continuous learning to move forward again.
Rather than get stuck in worry or self-recrimination, Extraordinary Selves move forward by believing, “There is no failure. There is only failure to learn the next step.”
Extraordinary Selves believe that important successes and great satisfaction are just a next step (or a series of steps) away. They believe with a learning mindset—figuring out what information and resources they need to succeed—they will figure out what next steps will help them get there.
Then, they use their belief in continuous learning to move forward again.
Extraordinary Selves are confident because they’ve learned the method to succeed. And, they have let go of the limiting beliefs that hold others back.
Extraordinary Self e-courses address the underlying beliefs and assumptions that set people up for failure or success.
Would you like to cultivate those beliefs for yourself? Consider taking our complimentary Self Assessment and deciding what next step you can take today to influence the outcomes you want tomorrow.
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