Reclaim your personal power! If you’ve been struggling through a relationship break-up or a divorce, you may feel helpless, confused, and defeated. You are probably suffering from stress, anxiety, self-doubt, frustration and/or disappointment. You may be holding anger and resentment, or enduring inner and outer attacks disparaging your self-worth. You may fear an empty future and more rejection. You may worry that you will be alone forever, and never find the right partner for you.

Leave that pain behind as you learn to love yourself again and prepare for your extraordinary life and future relationships – especially your relationship with yourself.

Reconnect with Your Dreams

At Extraordinary Self, Donna and I (Dr. Diane) know conclusively that it is too early to give up your dreams! How do we know this? Because we have helped thousands uncover and resolve the hidden obstacles that contribute to the vicious cycles in relationships and also slow post-breakup recovery.

When relationships disintegrate, we experience deeper stress and worry. We feel more anxiety and fear of the future. This often leads to feelings of overwhelm and distress as well as sleepless nights and confusing days. Let’s start to change that, together, step by step, with in this introductory session. If you like what we offer, you can sign up later to join our group breakup and divorce recovery program, or for private help.

Failed relationships take a toll on our identity, leading us to question our own self-worth. This creates negativity, self-attacks, hopelessness, and lack of energy, purpose and direction. Chronic low self-worth makes it even worse. There is a better way!

Imagine that you are walking around with low stress and high positivity, and back in control of your life. This can be youI It might feel hard to believe when you are feeling alone and depressed, but it is definitely possible.

What Gets in Our Way: On the Surface
When we ask what gets in one’s way of reaching one’s dreams, we hear answers like:

“I don’t know what to do; or “That is not me;“ or “I don’t come from that kind of family;” or “ I am convinced that I am stuck with me the way I am;” or “I tried and nothing worked:”

“I am too emotional;” or “ I am ashamed that I’ve failed.” or “It will always be like this.” or “I can’t change,” or  “I am not smart enough.” or “I am not attractive enough.” or “I have no idea what to do.” 

When examined, these statements – actually Limiting Beliefs that we take to be true — are part of what keeps us stuck in a rut. And, the real, underlying problems do not get resolved. That can change! The fact that you are still reading is a pretty good indicator that you want a change in your life. Right?

So how will you get there?

Inner Changes Needed and Learning Path to Follow

In contrast to the negativity you might be feeling now, and Limiting Beliefs, we will show you how to feel good about yourself and your life – unconditionally.

Following the principles and strategies we will share, you will begin to shift feelings and beliefs, now causing low self-worth, negative self-talk, and self-attacks.

And we will shed light on healing childhood wounds that keep us stuck in failing relationships – and sometimes repeating those relationships with others. We will show you how to change that.

With a positive self-concept and helpful Liberating rather than Limiting Beliefs, you will begin restoring yourself and moving toward your dreams in a new way.

You will stop getting stuck in negativity, fears, obstacles, indecision, or blocks. Instead, you will  focus on what you need to learn, rather than on what is wrong with you.

Feeling good, you will begin learning what’s needed to get your life back on track. We will support you in these new learnings.

Success Stories

DIANA had been in a long-term, but unsatisfying relationship and career. She was confused and a breakup was on the horizon. Working with us, she was able to reorganize the inner puzzle of her life. She gained clarity about what she really wanted. She learned to shift from limiting to liberating beliefs. She transformed her inner judge from critical to resourceful, and then transformed a variety of self-defeating patterns into helpful resource patterns. Shortly after, Diana decided to make the break. She moved to a different state and refocused her life and talents. Today, she leads corporate transformational programs. She also found her soulmate in the process!

JOANN felt stuck. Having no real need to work, she had given up her career, but felt unfulfilled. By working with us, she transformed her mind and behavior. Instead of doing the expected, she gave herself permission to follow her passions for ballroom dancing and painting – and then made shift after shift for more positivity and joy. She transformed to her Extraordinary Self. She feels fulfilled again, and her marriage is going strong.

NANCY had been highly successful in business, but less so in her relationships. After her divorce, she registered for an Extraordinary Self Program. She began challenging her beliefs about herself. As a result, she developed higher self-worth and inner confidence, She learned new skills for communicating in relationships. She also set criteria for the kind of person and relationship she wanted. Before long, she found the right man for her and built a great relationship.

How We Can Help You

If you resonate at least a bit with the real people stories above –  maybe you are ready to take your next step with us. Participate in our free workshop and explore our approach to change. If you believe it will help you, you can sign up for our year-long Breakup and Divorce Recovery Program. 

We look forward to letting you test a few of our tools to see how they work for you.

Then, if you want this opportunity for yourself – your chance to draw on our expertise and guidance, you may register for our program.

Register now to meet us (Donna and Diane) – Friday, December 1 , 2023 –  and learn how we can help. Get the Zoom link to begin feeling better and moving forward. 

We offer this free program because we have been where you are now – and we have learned how to heal and move forward again with passion, vision and success. You can and will reach your dreams and get the results you want – once you put our principles into practice.

Sign up here to reserve your place and receive a free gift from us to test drive a few of our transformation tools.

Coming Attraction!

For those of you who want and need lots of guidance and mentoring to get you over the rough spots, we are opening our Premier Private Coaching Package to a select few (only 10 slots available). We’ll tell you more on December 1st.  

And at any point, you can call us at 631-553-1476 or 631-979-0100 for us to help you create a custom package of individual coaching and learning, with full accountability so that you can accelerate reaching those dreams.

During this powerful 90-minute workshop,
Dr. Diane Kramer and Donna Anselmo, M.S., will help you
Break or Transform Toxic and Dysfunctional Relationships.

If you’ve been tangled in a toxic, dysfunctional relationship, this workshop will:

• Help you to understand what’s needed to free yourself (and maybe the other) from that distress.
• Define Toxic Dysfunctional Relationships
• Provide insight to the underpinnings that keep you locked in place.
• Reveal warning signs – whether with a romantic partner, parent, child, neighbor, boss, colleague & more.
• Toxic relationship types

• • • Vicious Cycle –
    • Power Imbalance and Gaslighting – Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation in which the abuser attempts to sow self-doubt and confusion in their victim’s mind. Typically, gaslighters are seeking to gain power and control over the other person, by distorting reality and forcing them to question their own judgment and intuition.
    • Dependency, overpleasing and perfectionism
  • Your History – Why are you in toxic relationship in first place
  • What do you need to change to free yourself – and maybe the other; or if you have broken up, how to recover
    • Awareness
    • Detaching
    • Learning to feel good about you
    • Learning that you deserve
    • Learning to trust yourself
    • Setting boundaries
    • Changing Beliefs
    • Changing Communication

• Creating your new and more satisfying future

Learn with us, and you’ll create more space in your life for passion, enthusiasm, and energy. Actually, you will do more than just learn. You will start unpacking hidden self-defeating patterns and begin your changes!

As you practice these 3 Key Ability exercises, you’ll derive many benefits – time expands, creativity surges, and results-oriented changes emerge.

Activate Your Potential to Achieve the Results You Deserve!

Since the early 1970’s, our team members have been at the leading edge of personal and professional development. In 2006,  we introduced our revolutionary and research-based Extraordinary Self® Transformation Program. This proven program has since helped thousands of women like you unblock themselves by unlocking Key Abilities for extraordinary success and satisfaction.

By internalizing the same Abilities we would love to help you develop, thousands of extraordinary women already have achieved exceptional results. Why not you?

As they honed these Key Abilities  — they transformed their sense of self — as well as their lives, relationships and careers. In short, they reached their goals.

These women, whom we call Extraordinary Selves. enjoyed big breakthroughs. They cultivated a powerful mindset, higher earnings, more respect, extraordinary relationships, abundant creativity, and profound success inside and out.

So why is it so challenging to get the big results you want in your own business and/or career?

Why is it so hard to break through the inner glass ceiling or the sense of imposter syndrome that holds so many women locked in place?

The answer is you simply haven’t sharpened these Key Abilities – yet. And, you need to!

With exponential growth in regional and global competition — and myriad distractions of a discordant world — comfort-zone complacency won’t cut it. You must be able to create and lead changes you want for results inside and out! 

As a woman with goals and dreams, you need extraordinary skills and abilities to succeed. 

To succeed, you need the inner skills that bring all else together – your dreams, your thoughts, your beliefs, your emotions, and your success patterns. And, those skills must align within to work in lockstep!

What Gets in the Way of Unlocking Potential?

Most personal development and self-awareness courses do not understand or really deal with the deeper blocks that stop women from excelling and getting the results they want.

Many coaches and instructors teach the surface skills without first uncovering the foundational locks that hold one’s ineffective patterns in place – patterns like stress, frustration, blame, perfectionism, withdrawal, and avoidance.

Without uncovering the roots of success blocks, even a motivated career woman risks living and working in a holding pattern – never connecting with who and all she is capable of being.

It is heartbreaking to feel stuck and waste your great potential — especially when you can learn and practice what’s needed to enjoy the deep satisfaction and success of Extraordinary Selves.

We’ve seen that many business and professional women succeed just enough to keep going – but we know they are capable of so much more! We’ve seen it happen over and over with women in our Program who are using 3 of the Key Abilities we will share in this program – for free.

We know that more comes to life for women learn the Key Abilities of Extraordinary Selves.

Are you ready to transform and get the results you want inside and out?

Results such as … good feelings … personal and career alignment … living and working with purpose … big goals accomplished … a helpful inner coach instead of a critical inner voice … more extraordinary relationships … win/win communication … successful negotiation with more authenticity … ongoing integrity … and measurable success?

Is that what you want? Do you see how those results will help you?

Do you also need to feel confident that you will get extraordinary results before taking the risk of investing in yourself? Sure you do.

In the late 1960’s I experienced a spiritual vision of a more extraordinary world that would evolve through beliefs changes, behavior changes, and new technology. That intriguing vision carried through my long career as a clinical psychologist, full-time college professor of psychology, and award-winning tech entrepreneur.

Since 1993, I have been working on developing step-by-step methods to unlock deep fast, life changing results for women – 30 years! This body of work became the Extraordinary Self® Program (first delivered in person to small groups of business leaders, professional organizations and individuals on Long Island, NY.)

At the time, these methods helped more than 2,000 women (plus men and couples) reach goals they set for themselves in business and life. The Program earned a 96% satisfaction rate in participant surveys. And we now offer this training with online support – enabling us to serve you, too.

The workshop-style Webinar we host on July 20 shares this same Extraordinary Self approach, modeled on the inner and outer patterns of highly successful, highly satisfied people. This modeling of success patterns underlies all of my coaching, therapy and e-course work – and that of our Extraordinary Self-certified coaches.

Over the years, Extraordinary Self coaches have brought more success to business owners, upper-level managers and C-suite executives, sales people,  lawyers, nurses, educators  and other professionals.

Extraordinary Self Programs produce “breakthrough results” – results that make a big difference for our clients – leading to business success and career advancement, higher earnings, more visibility, recognized leadership, extraordinary relationships, love, and well-being to name some results. You choose your goals. We help you get there.

The Extraordinary Self Program is a revolutionary step-by-step method, specifically designed to help you overcome the hidden and internal barriers that keep you from realizing your full potential and achieving the goals you set.

Do you want more in your life? Do you want to reach your own great potential aka self-actualize (a concept originally espoused by psychologist Abraham Maslow)?Are you feeling the impulse to become everything you can be? Are you prompted to use your gifts to help those around you?

We want that for you!

Too few programs are designed specifically for women who want to self-actualize, live with unshakeable self-worth, stand in their own powerful self-concept, and live from the inside out – with integrity – while experiencing continual inner satisfaction and outer success.

Our Program will deliver what you need – starting with this Webiner.

We invite you to sign up and step into Extraordinary Self power on July 20 at 11 AM PAC / 2 PM EST.

If you are like Elizabeth, who was ready for a career change, but didn’t know how to step beyond her comfort zone, this is your chance to prepare for your own bigger future!

If you are like Diana or JoAnn, who was stuck in an unfulfilling life and didn’t believe she could change her situation, starting learning  how to shift your beliefs from limiting to liberating! We’ll get you started!

If you are like Judy, who was overwhelmed in a C-level position in a major corporation, you’ll be able to fast track your career by using all the Key Abilities of Extraordinary Selves.

If you are like Michelle, a registered nurse with underutilized skills, you’ll transform your self-concept and grow those new opportunities you desire!

Once you become your Extraordinary Self, your new results will become incredible and irreversible. You deserve this gift to yourself!

Join us July 20 and begin to grow and glow in your extraordinary personal power!

Join Us Risk Free to Sharpen 3 Key Abilities
for Your Personal and Professional Evolution.

Armed with the Key Abilities of Extraordinary Selves, you soon will Dissolve Hidden Obstacles and Unlock Extraordinary Results.

You soon will enjoy More Connection! More Engagement! More Resilience! More Energy! More Balance! More Creativity! More Productivity! More Joy! More Love! More Satisfaction and More Success – Inside and Out!

Are you ready for this? We think so!

 Click Here to Register Now!